Advice for dating a man going through a divorce
They talk to their attorney, they find out that it’s cheaper to stay married and cheat than it is to leave her and pay her half of everything. Married men go out looking for women all of the time.
A lot of the times married men stay married because they don’t want to split their pie in half.
This a cowardly way to handle the situation and nothing short of him growing a set of balls and leaving is going to change that fact.
Sure, he could have real feelings too, but never strong enough to leave the wife and deal with all the stress of a divorce. If he calls and texts you, just respond with: You’re a married man. I don’t care what story you have, I don’t care what issues you have—I’m not getting involved with another woman’s man. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.
The other woman can’t call him or see him when she wants to.
Eventually those sneaky late night phone calls end abruptly with “I gotta go!
This in turn will make the other woman feel even more humiliated as she thought he didn’t like his wife like that.
If she expresses it, he already has his reasoning – 1) she knew he was married, and 2) he never said he was leaving his wife.
This is hook line and sinker for the woman, as she automatically thinks, “oh, he wants to talk to me so badly that he’s risking getting caught!
Unfortunately, even if she is not ready to admit it, her subconscious desire is for him to make the dream come true, and leave his wife.
The worst thing to do is sleep with the married man as once the adultery is official, the dynamic of the relationship drastically changes.
And this story has been passed down from generation to generation; it’s a story of, “I’m going to leave my wife, I love you, just give me time. And he’ll string them along as long because he doesn’t want to end the great sex he’s having. Do not look back, pass go, collect your 0, and get the hell out of dodge. If you really want to get to know me, move out of your house. 1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success.
They try to find the woman that is at her weakest moment, a woman that will actually believe that story that they’re selling. And the weak women always go for it and waste endless time with this type of man.